Tuesday, 5 June 2012

PARADIGM FOR TRUE AND LASTING LOVE

True love begins with a fair word of genuine concern and follows up with a firm action of trust .Trust is the foundation , without it , you do not feel safe . If you do not feel safe, you can't be vulnerable, and you can't be intimate.
The Spartan adage states " there are two wolves fighting in every man 's heart. One is love and the other is hate.The question is which one wins, the one you feed the most " Love is love only in the context of truth ,trust and genuine concern for the welfare of your fellow being.No matter how defensiveness you are , you can measure real love by the secret truth it reveals.And a best friend is known by how he or she needs the truth and cares about each others  well-being.
Love creates tenderness, which survives passion. Love is an excellent act of frankness and must be needed for a long lasting relationship.
It is an excellent rule to practice frankness in all dealings and association with others, whether in business or sociopolitical affairs.
The quality of a man's life is in direct proportion to his commitment to excellence, regardless of his chosen field of endeavor.
Edgar E. Friedenberg once said "what we must decide is how we are valuable rather than how valuable we are "
Lannie Barbach confirmed this in the Chicago Tribune when he said " when you look at relationships  that make it the people are good friends and treat each other with  respect, they have shared values and they trust one another" A friendship based on true love is steady and lasting even in marriage.

THE RESOLVE TO LOVE

A decision memorable in history and relationship to prove one's state of excellence and to stay in touch with the pulse of humanity. It is the ability  to accept people the way they are, so that your true and inner self really needs to ultimately communicate honestly,with integrity,courage and confidence.
Love and kindness are never wasted.They always make a difference.They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you the giver.
A friendship like love is warm; A love like friendship is steady. The only conquest on our journey of love which are permanent and leave no surprises are our conquests over ourselves . Martin Luther King jr  once said " at the center of none violence stands the principle of love "
The most important factor in the journey of life is our attitude of love towards God and humanity. The secret of our future is hidden in our daily love routine.
Therefore every situation , properly perceived,becomes an opportunity to share love with fellow humanity. To be a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts.